Do Something Great

It’s a messy thing, this democracy of ours.  Government of the people, by the people and for the people is beautiful yet fearsome to behold.  When a country is founded upon freedom of speech, freedom of religion, and equality for all, fierce disagreements, chaos, confusion, political posturing, and down and dirty fighting are inevitable.

That’s why I love Presidents’ Day, a federal holiday honoring the birthday of our first President, George Washington.  It reminds me how precious our freedom is, especially when we are not of one mind.  The first Presidents’ Day was celebrated on Washington’s actual birthday, Feb. 22, 1796, during the last full year of his presidency.  Today the holiday honors George Washington and Abraham Lincoln in particular as well as all of our other presidents.

“I am keenly aware of my aloneness.”  In the movie Lincoln, Abraham Lincoln thus describes to his wife a dream he had in January 1865, shortly before his inauguration for a second term.  The number of dead continued to mount in the Civil War where 750,000 people died, which was almost 2.5 percent of the U.S. population at the time or the equivalent of 7.5 million people today.   The pain of every death weighed upon his heart.

Lincoln

The toll of this brutal war would not be redeemed unless slavery was ended, but it was not assured simply by a military victory for the North.  Lincoln was committed to keeping the Union together as well as abolishing slavery, which was deliberately omitted from the U.S. Constitution a century before as an unsolvable problem.

Lincoln had declared that all slaves were free in his January 1, 1863 Emancipation Proclamation, but it was merely a proclamation.  If the13th Amendment to the Constitution were not passed before the Civil War ended, Lincoln would no longer have the authority of War Powers, in which case the Emancipation Proclamation could be declared illegal, throwing the country back into the abyss.

Abraham Lincoln was a mysterious, complex man: private, intuitive, politically shrewd, and profoundly relational.  Unlike George Washington, who was one of the richest men in America, Lincoln was a most unlikely president, pulling himself out of poverty by his proverbial bootstraps.  Lincoln had almost no formal education, mourned the death of his first love, failed in business, and had bouts of melancholy.  Only one of his four children lived to adulthood.

In Lincoln we see one of our greatest presidents lead this country through one of our darkest moments by allowing his God-given gifts to guide him.  First, Abraham Lincoln was a man of acute emotional intelligence.  He was the quintessential non-anxious presence who virtually always remained calm and centered even when the storm raged around him.

Much of Lincoln is based on Doris Kearns Goodwin’s biography, Teams of Rivals; The Political Genius of Abraham Lincoln.  Goodwin writes that when Abraham Lincoln won the 1860 presidential election he appointed to his cabinet three men who had competed with him for the Republican presidential nomination: New York Senator William H. Seward, Ohio Governor Salmon P. Chase, and Missouri’s distinguished elder statesman Edward Bates.  There was rivalry, competition, and outright fighting among Cabinet members, but Lincoln managed the intensity of his team with kindness, an open mind, encouragement, and gratitude for the skills each man brought to the table.

Although the decision to seek passage of the 13th Amendment was his alone, Lincoln knew that without input and counsel from others the goal could not be accomplished.  Lincoln had an uncanny ability to individually connect with his cabinet and lawmakers from both ends of the political spectrum.  Because he was not threatened by a variety of perspectives, Lincoln was able to build trust and form coalitions that accrued political capital.  Whether in politics, business, the church, or our families, it’s always about relationships, isn’t it?

Lincoln’s “Honest Abe” reputation did not put him above the nitty-gritty of cutthroat politicking, however.  Republicans constituted 56% of the House of Representatives, but they needed a 2/3 vote.  Lincoln’s team did whatever was necessary to win, including arm-twisting, bullying, offering patronage jobs to Democrats, or threatening other lawmakers if they were resistant.

A second gift of Abraham Lincoln was an inner moral compass that pointed him toward true north.  Thaddeus Stevens was by most accounts the fiercest opponent of slavery and had the sharpest tongue in Congress.  Because Lincoln was committed to both ending slavery and preserving the Union, he planned a careful strategy to pass the 13th Amendment.  However, by 1865 Stevens described Lincoln as “the capitulating compromiser, the dawdler.”

In a memorable scene between Stevens and Lincoln, Stevens argued eloquently that all men and women, whether in the north or south, should listen to their inner moral compass.  That compass, Stevens continued, points toward True North, to the truth that all people are created equal and slavery should be abolished.

Lincoln’s reply demonstrated his political genius.  “The compass may point true north, but it does not warn us of obstacles and swamps along the way.  If we plunge ahead without heeding the obstacles we could sink in a swamp… and then what good is true north?”  In other words, doing the right thing is not always a straight road.  When both sides are convinced they are right, barriers will usually appear that hinder the road to True North.  If Lincoln had plowed heedlessly ahead without caution, prudent negotiation, and getting everyone on board, the path to equality might well have become sidetracked.

A third gift that undergirded Lincoln’s presidency was his deep compassion for the suffering of an entire country.  At the end of his Second Inaugural Address on March 4, 1865, Lincoln said,  “With malice toward none, with charity for all, with firmness in the right as God gives us to see the right, let us strive on to finish the work we are in, to bind up the nation’s wounds, to care for him who shall have borne the battle and for his widow and his orphan, to do all which may achieve and cherish a just and lasting peace among ourselves and with all nations.”

Lincoln insisted that there be no retribution shown to the South after the war was over.  In the movie, Lincoln speaks to General Ulysses S. Grant at the end of the war, “Once he surrenders, send his boys back to their homes, their farms, their shops…  Liberality all around.  No punishment, I don’t want that.  And the leaders – Jeff and the rest of ‘em – if they escape, leave the country while my back’s turned, that wouldn’t upset me none.  When peace comes it mustn’t just be hangings.”

Abraham Lincoln understood the importance of religion in public life and had considerable contact with preachers of various denominations.  Lincoln’s theology was eclectic and his spirituality authentic.  Lincoln knew who his True North was and relied on God’s power to give him wisdom and grace to lead the country.

On May 18, 1864, Lincoln wrote a letter in his own penmanship to the General Conference of the Methodist Episcopal Church in Baltimore, which had passed a resolution of encouragement and sent it to Mr. Lincoln.  This was his reply,

“Gentlemen: In response to your address allow me to attest the accuracy of its historical statements; endorse the sentiment it expresses; and thank you in the nation’s name for the sure promise it gives.  Nobly sustained as the Government has been by all the churches, I would utter nothing which might in the least appear invidious against any.  Yet without this it may fairly be said that the Methodist Episcopal Church, not less devoted than the rest, is, by its greater numbers, the most important of all.  It is no fault in others that the Methodist Church sends more soldiers to the field, more nurses to the hospital, and more prayers to heaven than any.  God bless the Methodist Church, bless all the churches, and blessed be God, who, in this our great trial, giveth us the churches.”

Abraham Lincoln was a regular attender at New York Avenue Presbyterian Church, four blocks from the White House.  In order to assure privacy for Lincoln during Wednesday night prayer services, Rev. Phineas Gurley allowed the president to sit in the pastor’s study with the door open to the chancel so he could listen to the sermon without having to interact with the crowd.

One Wednesday evening as Lincoln and a companion walked back to the White House after the sermon, the president’s companion asked, “What did you think of tonight’s sermon?”

“Well,” Lincoln responded, “it was brilliantly conceived, biblical, relevant, and well presented.”

“So, it was a great sermon?”

“No,” Lincoln replied.  “It failed.  It failed because Dr. Gurley did not ask us to do something great.”

The 13th Amendment to the U.S. Constitution passed the House of Representatives on January 31, 1865.  President Abraham Lincoln asked the House of Representatives to do something great so that our country would become something great.  Despite his assassination on April 15, 1865 Abraham Lincoln changed the course of human history.  Lincoln’s legacy will forever inspire and encourage ordinary people like you and me to discover our truest self in Jesus Christ and make a positive difference in our world.  Do something great.

Blessings,
Laurie

 

Don’t Look Where You Don’t Want to Go

September 3, 2012

“Don’t look where you don’t want to go.”  My friends Libby and Bruce are teaching me how to ride a mountain bike.  After many years of road biking, I gave in to their encouragement to give it a try.  There are many differences between road biking and mountain biking.  There are only certain places where skinny, little road bike tires will go, but mountain bikes can plow through sand, gravel, mud, underbrush, and over rocks.  The primary danger in road biking is CARS and DOGS, while mountain bikers are constantly vigilant about steep hills, sharp curves, tree roots, boulders, and unexpected obstacles.

Road bikes can travel a lot faster, but you have to stay on paved roads.  Mountain bikes are slower, but they can take you to places you’ll never see on a road bike.  But here’s the primary difference between a road bike and a mountain bike according to Libby.  “When riding a mountain bike, don’t look where you don’t want to go.”  In other words, in whatever direction you allow yourself to look, your subconscious will likely steer you.     

Road biking is predictable, but you can’t daydream on a mountain bike.  You never know what you will encounter next, so you have to keep your eyes focused on where you want to go.  If you fixate on the huge tree in front of you rather than the narrow path, you may very well crash into the tree.  And if you are spooked by the sand dune ahead, you won’t have the reflexes to get into the proper gear to glide effortlessly through the sand, and you’ll probably tip over.

After failing to navigate an overgrown 2 track last week and falling into a bed of poison ivy, I said to Libby, “It’s a great mantra, ‘Don’t look where you don’t want to go.’  But it’s not as easy as one might think.  In fact, it’s a great metaphor for life.”

Anyone who has struggled with addictions, compulsions, or obsessions understands the analogy perfectly.  If you need to lose weight, don’t keep ice cream or potato chips in the house because you won’t be able to resist “just one bite.”  If you are trying to kick the Coke habit, don’t put Coke in your grocery cart.  If you can’t stop at one beer, don’t go to the bar with your friends.  Either go somewhere else or find new friends.  If you are attracted to pornography, block the sites on your computer, and don’t look where your heart tells you not to go.

Case in point.  A few weeks ago Prince Harry found himself in a bit of hot water with the Queen and his father.  Pictures were released of 27 year old naked Harry carrying on with one or more naked women during a strip billiards game in a Las Vegas hotel on August 21.  Harry has always been the most fun-loving and mischievous of Prince Charles and Princess Diana’s two sons.  He’d gotten into trouble more than once growing up, but it seemed in the last few years that Harry was maturing into his role as third in line for the British throne.  Just recently Prince Harry represented the Queen at the closing ceremonies of the Olympics and comported himself well.

Prince Harry has no doubt been told numerous times, “Don’t look where you don’t want to go.  Remember who you are.  You are a prince at all times, not just when you want to be.  Even though Las Vegas prides itself on its slogan, ‘What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas,’ it doesn’t apply to royals.  Therefore, you must be on guard at all times because there are certain things that princes just don’t do. ”

Royal aides requested that Britain’s newspaper watchdog, the Press Complaints Commission, urge British newspapers not to publish the photos.  Of course, millions of people could already see the pictures online, to the great embarrassment of the royal family.  Most Brits seem amused by Harry’s antics, which have endeared him to the world over the years.  At the same time Harry’s family has undoubtedly instilled in him the fact that there is no such this as a public and a private royal life, especially in the 21st century.  “Harry, everything that you do is subject to scrutiny, so even if your desires tempt you to get sidetracked, don’t look where you really don’t want to go.

Prince Harry had a talking to by his father and grandma and is now safely back in the British Army where he is a captain and pilot of an Apache attack helicopter.  Meanwhile, many in Las Vegas are capitalizing on this incident of indecent exposure by attempting to increase their own exposure.

 

Lest you think that Prince Harry’s royal woes don’t apply to you, 1 Peter chapter 2 gives us some sobering advice, “But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s own people in order that you proclaim the mighty acts of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light.”  The Haller edition of my Bible also adds these words, “Don’t look where you don’t want to go.  Think before you act in a way that would disappoint God.  Don’t for a minute assume that others are not looking to you as an example and model of a Christ-like life.”

All clergy know that they are role models, set apart for the professional ministry.  We receive formal training on boundary setting, sexual ethics, pornography, and responsible use of technology.  Less clear are guidelines governing smoking, swearing, spending habits, alcohol consumption, and misuse of prescription drugs.

We constantly struggle with what it means to be human and clergy at the same time, to be holy when we know that we can never be perfect, to have both a private and a public life, and to be an example at the same time as we don’t always get it right.  Perhaps the best advice for clergy is, “Don’t look where you don’t want to go.  Make sure to hold yourself accountable to a spiritual director, covenant group, or other support group.  Stay calm, repent, and ask for forgiveness, and carry on as changed people.” 

The apostle Peter’s words were not simply meant for clergy, however.  They are addressed to all who attempt to live as faithful disciples and represent Christ.  One of the primary reasons that young people today are turned off by the church is their perception of Christians as poor examples: aka hypocrites.

  • We say one thing and do another
  • We proclaim grace but withhold that very grace from those who do not think like us
  • We advocate for peace and justice at the same time as we fail to demonstrate inclusivity in our churches around gender, race, ethnicity, socioeconomic status, age, sexual orientation, religion, and handicapping conditions
  • We have big ideas about transforming the world but resist transformation in our local churches and denomination as well as in our own spiritual lives
  • We tout the fruits of the spirit but when push comes to shove in our local churches, we turn our eyes away from Jesus and resort to power plays, name-calling, criticism, pressuring, clutching, and quenching the Spirit

The solution?  It’s quite simple.  Get naked, but not exactly like Prince Harry got naked.  Allow God to penetrate your hard exterior and expose yourself for who you are, with all your flaws, fears, and phobias.  Admit both your vulnerability in wanting to look where you don’t want to go and your inability to resist temptation on your own.

     Recognize where God is not leading you, and don’t focus on what will lead you astray.  Then discern where God is calling you to go, and get on your mountain bike and move.   Leave your road bike behind because the kingdom road is not smooth.  The way of the cross is full of hazards, bumps and bruises, low hanging trees, and huge roots, but there is no other path I’d rather take.

Don’t look where you don’t want to go, keep calm, and carry on.  That means you, too, Harry!

Blessings,

Laurie